Queer for it
Friday, January 1, 2010 at 8:13PM
Ashley Sisco feels the pain
One of the many Stapler-isms that have made me smile is the statement that you “have to be queer for it,” which means to desire something intensely.
My daughter Ashley has as parents two decent former quarter-milers, so it did not surprise us when she excelled on the track. Biomechanically, she is a beautiful runner, simply gorgeous when she is stretched out in a race. By her junior year in High School, she had risen to the level just under the true elite, winning the County title in the 800.
Something I noticed, however, and something that she readily admitted was that she seemed to never leave everything on the track; she always held back from running all-out. When I ran, I would often feel as if I was going to projectile vomit as I staggered like a newborn giraffe calf at the end of a race. Ashley, on the other hand, recovered almost immediately. Though she had good genes and incredible talent, she was not queer for it. Her career ended by her choice after a year at Kennesaw State, and her mother and I smile bitter sweetly when we hear her play woulda-coulda-shoulda.
Although I, too, am guilty of playing woulda-coulda-shoulda from time to time, particularly when it comes to transferring out of a medical track into real estate development while in college, I am doing what I truly love. Marrying historic rehabilitation with sustainability is where my heart is. I’m absolutely queer for it.
Over the twelve months of 2010, we believe that the changes underway at Lincoln Mills will be so profound that many in this fine city will become queer for it, perhaps even to their own surprise.
Wayne |
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Reader Comments (2)
I am going to try to make a trip in the spring, my mother's health and such I feel the calling before it's too late like it was for my father. I am anxious to see the fruits of your labor. My father worked in that building in the late 60's early 70's. The continued postings here allow those of us who are disconnected from what is going on in HSV to be reconnected. The woulda-coulda-shoulda seems to have affected many of us dear friend. I know that we played that game for many years. I am so proud of your accomplishments!
Salud! I'm glad you are queer for it. I saw the Farm in Jones Valley on your Ma's coffee table while I was spontaneously visiting your parents this week. Can't wait to visit the mill in June with a passel of other Siscos.
Continue to thrive!